Ladies & Gentlemen.... Here's a question for you: Is it okay to hate your ex? Is this
a normal part of grieving a past relationship or is it symptomatic of
some deeper unresolved issues?Please respond, i will love to hear from you, you can sign in as anonymous...
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Sometimes its ok to hate, i've felt that before.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you that itz ok to hate, but I also realised that hating is part of the getting over phase. When you can actually move past hate, you become a winner! It doesn't mean you begin to love the person again, it just means the person no longer has a hold on your emotions!
ReplyDeletei totally agree with you Uduak, and during that anger phase, try not to do anything stupid like make the person payback, or try to make your ex also feel pain, or try to make them jealous. Just try to get over it by occupying yourself with activities and hang around fun friends...
ReplyDeleteI think its totally cool to hate at first but dont let your hate control your emotions. To me the hate phase helps to get over the good times and memories shared, after that life goes on, eventually you will come to realize that you can actually do without the hate. Haroon El Jamal..
ReplyDeletehating your ex is a waste of time and energy, get over him or her or go kill yourself.
ReplyDeleteHating ur ex means Ɣ☺ΰ stil attached to him or her,n ur ex has moved on while Ɣ☺ΰ der bitter n sad.tink do ur sef d favour n good to forgive n move on cos is to ur own advantage.
ReplyDeleteThanks everyone for your contribution...
ReplyDeleteThe bible says owe no man nothing but love... By God's standards, its not ok, it's low.
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