LADIES HEAR WHAT MEN SAY THEY DO NOT LIKE ABOUT YOU...

1) REQUIRING UNDIVIDED ATTENTION:  

 I don’t know why but girls are always crying for attention, its like no matter how much you try to give them, it never seems to be sufficient.  I don’t mind spending time with my girl but sometimes I think they get too needy with this attention business. Guys want to have time for himself too, you know to play video games, watch sports and stuff or even hang out with the boys. I think if women would just chill out and let their men chill then they wouldn’t be getting the artificial attention they sometimes get. So ladies all I’m say is stop begging for the attention and just let it flow naturally.

2)BEING TOO NEEDY:

 Women who cling to a guy for dear life, call a dozen times a day and drive a man crazy show their insecurity.

3) NAGGING:

Get off his back, as men are offended by repeated criticism, constant requests and pointing out errors in their judgement or actions.

4) GOLD-DIGGING:

 Is it him or his wallet? How much money a man spends or makes isn’t your business, and men feel used when asked by new dates to buy them gifts or pay the rent.

5) TALKING ABOUT EX-LOVERS OR EX-HUSBANDS.

 This shows that a women is not over the relationship. Bitter, hateful comments make men nervous. Who needs more drama or more anger from a date?

6) GOSSIPPING AND CRITICISING:

other women or men shows that a woman is petty and makes a man uncomfortable. He’s smart enough to know you would bad-mouth him, too.

7) JEALOUSY:

It is self-defeating. Stay close to a man by giving him his freedom. If he’s trustworthy, give him a break. If he’s a cheating rat, move on.

8) KEEPING HIM WAITING.

 Be ready on time. Men appreciate promptness, which is just good manners. Making him wait while you primp is stupid and he’ll be in a bad humour for the evening.

9) BABBLING:

 Girl-speak is something men do not appreciate, and chattering about your hairdresser’s comments, office gossip and clothes is a turnoff. Find something interesting or funny to tell him.

10) CHRONIC WHINING:

 Hey, you weren’t in Haiti. Complaining about your petty problems, or even major ones, is deadly for a relationship. Men value a smiling face and happy disposition. They have their own problems and don’t burden you.

11) INSECURITY:

 Men are comfortable with women who are comfortable with themselves. 

12) NOT SAYING THANK YOU:

Men hate it when they go to the trouble of planning a date, picking a woman up and taking her out, and never getting a thank you. Men want to be appreciated. And they prefer women who are considerate and grateful, at least verbally.

13) OVER PACKING:

 Remember the man who insisted in his pre-nup, that his future wife never take more than two bags on any trip? Men hate to carry all that luggage and many a fight has erupted over heavy, bulky luggage.

14) ANGRY BECAUSE WE ARE: 

One thing I learnt about women is that, whenever they are mad you have to be extra sensitive towards them to not hurt their feelings but when a guy is mad he’s always over reacting. What’s wrong with a guy getting mad if he sees you giggling with another man, huh? Not that I do that but you know what I mean. If your boyfriend/husband is mad about something try to understand and don’t say he’s over reacting.

15) PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE WOMEN:

Man this one right here is a killer. I know she’s mad and I asked and she’s telling me nothing is wrong. After asking for a while she returns and lets me know well, you are my problem and she just starts pouring everything down on me, all the anger, frustrations and blames. You know you are mad and I know you are mad, why the silent treatment or say nothing is wrong when I ask?

 16) INTERRUPTING UNNECESSARILY

 Ladies we hate when are trying to talk and you keep interrupting the conversation. Sometimes you interrupt the conversation to say something that is not even related to the subject. Something like, oh babe I saw this nice handbag can I get it. STOP DOING THAT.