WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN A MAN SAYS, "CALL ME" ?

There's only one time when it's good news to hear "call
me" from a man - and that's when he's already calling you
frequently. He's already actively pursuing you, and would
be thrilled to get a call from you. That's the way you
want it. And then, yes, DO call him. (Just not every 5
minutes!)

But it's very different when the relationship is just
starting out, OR when he is not the one pursuing you.

As you can imagine, when woman calls a new man daily or
even more often, instead of making her calls rare and
special occasions, her calls will be far less welcome and
are much more likely to come at a bad time or become an
annoyance.

Worse still, her constant calls virtually ensure that her
man is never going to spend time thinking about her.

A man must spend time thinking about you in order to fall
in love with you!

When a man casually says "call me," some women assume that
this means he intends to make a date, when he was just
ending your conversation. "Call me" can be the equivalent
of the not-too-sincere 'let's have lunch.'


When we really want to get closer to a man, and he throws
out 'Call me', some women make the mistake of latching on
to this and taking it too literally.

This reveals to him that you have a much greater stake in
a future with him than he does at that point. This will
make a man want to back off from you immediately.

You can see why it is so important to be in control of
how things go when it comes to calls and emails with the
men you date.