Do you sometimes feel worn out by people when you're around them or being in a serious quarrel/argument? Or do you dread being in a social gathering where it's required for you to express yourself in some way?.... Well if you've been in compromising situations around people, i have good news for you...
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Ask
yourself these questions: Is the matter important enough to warrant an argument? Is it
appropriate to argue about the matter, or at this time? Can anything be
changed, made different by prevailing in the argument? Is the issue worth
arguing about? If you answer, "No." to any of these questions, the
matter is not worth pressing. Tell yourself this. Know that there's no wrong
way to love someone, go after what you want it may workout in the long run, but
that's only if the person feels the same.
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Stop
caring about how people perceive you. The fact is, it really doesn't matter. It's
impossible to be yourself when you're caught up in wondering "Do they
think I'm funny? Does she think I'm fat? Do they think I'm stupid?" To be
yourself, you've got to let go of these concerns and just let your behavior flow, with only your consideration of others as a filter—not their
consideration of you.
