Ask the average guy to name some examples of
HOW men and women are different, and usually the
answer you'll get will include at least one of the
following:
- Women want commitment more than men
- Women want to get married and have kids and
men are happy just having sex and hanging out
- Women either want 'Nice Guys' or 'Jerks'
whereas guys just want good-looking women
- Women give sex to get love, men give love to
get sex
Here's the problem with this method of
thinking.
When you try to limit your way of thinking
about women and attraction to a set of
GENERALIZATIONS and STEREOTYPES, you're seriously
limiting your chances of ever getting past the
level of 'mediocrity' with women.
If you want to get interested in attracting
some seriously excellent women into your life,
you've got to go beyond where most men are content
to stay (read: where they'll get SOME women ... just
not necessarily GREAT women) and actually get a
deeper understanding of what's going on here.
Here's something else that could be secretly
crippling your ability to attract females: an
unspoken desire that WOMEN WERE MORE LIKE MEN.
Liz John Black talks about Weddings, Brides, Marriages, Relationships, and much more...
Friday, 8 June 2012
FOR MEN ONLY: PART (2) THE REAL DEAL WITH DATING & ATTRACTION
How many times have you heard of, or seen, a
guy whose life is just too 'compartmentalized' to
actually be sustainable?
During the day, he has his 'normal'
personality. Then at night, he puts on his sarging
clothes, studies up on magic tricks and 'cold
reading', and goes out to pick up females, hiding
behind his 'social personality' like an automaton.
Sooner or later, he's going to run out of
'material' and 'things to say', and is going to
run face-first into that brick wall known as,
'Uhhhhh ... what am I s'posed to do next?'
See, that's the problem with 'faking it'. At
some point, you're going to run into a situation
that's simply beyond the bounds of what you know...
and you're going to be stumped.
But if you're NOT 'faking it', and you're
actually BEING that guy who actually IS good with
women, you're NEVER going to have that problem,
because you're ALWAYS going to be able to trust
your own instincts.
It's a simple solution to a complex problem.
guy whose life is just too 'compartmentalized' to
actually be sustainable?
During the day, he has his 'normal'
personality. Then at night, he puts on his sarging
clothes, studies up on magic tricks and 'cold
reading', and goes out to pick up females, hiding
behind his 'social personality' like an automaton.
Sooner or later, he's going to run out of
'material' and 'things to say', and is going to
run face-first into that brick wall known as,
'Uhhhhh ... what am I s'posed to do next?'
See, that's the problem with 'faking it'. At
some point, you're going to run into a situation
that's simply beyond the bounds of what you know...
and you're going to be stumped.
But if you're NOT 'faking it', and you're
actually BEING that guy who actually IS good with
women, you're NEVER going to have that problem,
because you're ALWAYS going to be able to trust
your own instincts.
It's a simple solution to a complex problem.
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