guy whose life is just too 'compartmentalized' to
actually be sustainable?
During the day, he has his 'normal'
personality. Then at night, he puts on his sarging
clothes, studies up on magic tricks and 'cold
reading', and goes out to pick up females, hiding
behind his 'social personality' like an automaton.
Sooner or later, he's going to run out of
'material' and 'things to say', and is going to
run face-first into that brick wall known as,
'Uhhhhh ... what am I s'posed to do next?'
See, that's the problem with 'faking it'. At
some point, you're going to run into a situation
that's simply beyond the bounds of what you know...
and you're going to be stumped.
But if you're NOT 'faking it', and you're
actually BEING that guy who actually IS good with
women, you're NEVER going to have that problem,
because you're ALWAYS going to be able to trust
your own instincts.
It's a simple solution to a complex problem.
Oh, and by the way ... once you get past the
surface-level and really get interested in the
MECHANICS of what's going on here - the
'behind-the-scenes' information that helps you to
literally BE that quality guy - you'll find that
these skills are actually fundamental to just
about every area of life.
This isn't just going to make you better at
pickup.
It's going to make you better at LIFE.
So, here's the deal ...
Over the next week, you're going to become
familiar with the three core principles necessary
to rid you of unwholesome and limiting 'old-style'
beliefs pertaining to FEMALES and YOURSELF ... and as
a result, you're going to experience a quantum
shift in the kind of success you experience with
females, and with life in general.
THE 3 PRINCIPLES OF DATING ENLIGHTENMENT
Dating Principle #1: Men and women are
different.
This is a hugely profound statement, and yet
few men actually INTERNALIZE it and cross that
boundary between 'knowing' and 'doing'.
For example, a lot of guys know on a
theoretical level that women and men are not the
same ... and yet they continue, on some level, to
expect females to be 'more like men'.
Often, this takes the shape of the guy who's
biding his time and waiting for 'The Big One'
(a.k.a. 'the one') while he 'has fun for now' with
females who, secretly, he considers 'beneath him'
and 'not up to his standards' ...
... without realizing that the woman he REALLY
wants ... the one who implicitly 'gets it' and
'understands him' ...
... is NEVER going to show up, unless he decides
to take the bit between the teeth and actually
take the initiative as far as female behavior
patterns go.
Guys like these are the ones who never actually
invest any effort or time into actually
UNDERSTANDING feminine psychology or what 'works'
with women ... and so they end up repeating the same
old relationship-pattern again and again.
point, this fantastic person is going to just show
up in their lives without the need for them to
make any changes to their attitude or behavior
first.)
We all know that men and women are different.
But if you want to get some SUCCESS with females,
you've got to understand HOW they're different ...
and what that means for YOU.
Dating Principle #2: Females are attracted to men
because they're men.
OK guys. This is a big one. Have you noticed
that there's a huge tendency towards 'feminizing'
ourselves as men lately? Everywhere you look, guys
are sensitizing, tenderizing, and demasculinizing
themselves in the hopes that this will somehow
attract females.
Here's a new concept for you: women like men
who are MEN.
You know: strong, masculine guys who know who
they are, what they want, and who have the
confidence to do and be as they believe best.
Not a whimpering, supplicating creature that's
deliberately scrubbed all residual masculinity,
like unwanted barnacles, from its personality and
who attempts to attract females through its complete
LACK of anything that might 'offend' ...
... like being up-front about attraction ... like
teasing her and making her laugh ... like daring
to cross 'boundaries' in a playful, laid-back way
... like taking RISKS and being a MAN.
Enough of us have bought into the concept that
to be 'a man', and to telegraph to women the fact
that we - like everyone else on this planet -
actually enjoy sex, and wouldn't mind having some
from time to time, is a BAD THING if you want to
attract a female.
The result?
A strange and cloying tendency to 'befriend'
females, act like their therapists, and generally
attempt to repress any shows of genuine attraction
or sexuality in the hopes of coming in 'under the
radar'.
This kind of behavior positively reeks of
spinelessness - and not only that, but
MANIPULATION.
That's right: men who try to suppress their own
inherent maleness in order to get females are:
- manipulating themselves, by pretending that
basic aspects of their character are not
'appropriate' and do not exist
- manipulating HER, by lulling her assumed
'suspicions' and pretending to be and want
something that, respectively, they are not and do
not.
Part of creating massive and ongoing success
with females is recognizing the fact that you are a
man, and that remaining true to that manhood, and
never apologizing for it, is an ESSENTIAL aspect
of being a high-caliber guy and of being
attractive to blue-ribbon candidate females.
Dating Principle #3: Non-attachment is what
works - don't get obsessive.
The moment you start getting too attached to
the outcome of any situation - the moment you
start to act like a guy WITHOUT OPTIONS - is the
moment that the tables turn, you give up all your
CONTROL and POWER, and put HER in the driver's
seat of what happens next.
Incidentally, it's also the moment that she
begins to sense your inherent instability ... and
her attraction for you begins to wane.
On the other hand, if you can create a reality
for yourself where you have PLENTY of options ...
and you know that 'another, better one' could
literally show up at any minute ...
... then you NEVER get too attached to what
happens, you NEVER start obsessing, and you NEVER
inadvertently create your own, negative reality by
acting needy and insecure.
And by the way: this isn't about trying to 'not
care', or cultivating an attitude of apathy. It's
simply about knowing your own worth, and never
being DESPERATE.
WHAT'S COMING UP...
And here's how those 3 principles are going to
be applied over the next few days ...
Day 2: How the female mind works...
and how to use this knowledge to your advantage!
Discover how female brains are wired, and what
this means for YOU.
Day 3: The MOST IMPORTANT secret to making a
woman want you
So what does it take to 'man up'? What does it
take to inspire irresistible sexual chemistry in a
female? What does it REALLY take to be a man? And
why do females want a 'manly man' anyway? I'll give
you a quiz to measure exactly how well you're
igniting sexual polarity in a female and give you
concrete techniques to up your sex appeal.
Day 4. Become rejection-proof by mastering your
inner game
How to ditch your overt attachment to a
particular outcome, and lose the sense of
desperation and neediness that's keeping you
trapped in Rejection Hell. How to update your
attitude and approach to dating and attraction so
that you become the strong, masculine man who
NATURALLY attracts females and keeps their interest
... all without a hint of groveling, supplication,
or ass-kissing.
Day 5. Unravel female flirtation signals to
FASCINATE them
Find out how you can use your 'insider
knowledge' of a woman's mind to maximize your
success in attracting them.
Day 6. Prevent the doldrums from poisoning your
loved-up bliss
Why is it that some guys seem to be trapped in
a cycle of continuing relationship blahs, while
for others, that bond just keeps getting better
and better? Why is it that some relationships turn
sour after just a month or two, even if they
seemed GREAT at first? Learn the secrets of
'relationship management' so that your life is
IMPROVED by the presence of your female chosen
one.
This is the basic 'success package' that you
need to get your feet planted firmly on the road
to knowledge and the kind of AUTHENTICALLY
high-caliber lifestyle that WILL attract great
females.
One last thing before I go ... this is all
completely different stuff from the 'routines' and
'techniques' that you may have learned from other,
more 'commercial' dating coaches.
This isn't about setting you up with the 'fake
it til you make it' lifestyle that somehow never
seems to QUITE click with the 'real you' ... this is
about shucking the husk of inauthenticity and
mediocrity, and effortlessly ATTRACTING 'quality'
into your life.
This is by no means impossible. And it's my
honor to show you the way.
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